Life Coaching - Be Flexible

Being right about yourself, about another person, about a situation, is an opinion. On this planet, 6.7 billion people have 6.7 billion points of view on what is right and what is wrong.

So who is right? Everyone and no one. A more powerful question is “Who cares?” No one cares about your point of view accept you, and the people you are aligned with.

MAJOR PROBLEM: All the big deals, all big projects, and the goals, and dreams that will change your life forever will occur with people outside of your circle. Those people have Drunk Monkeys just like you. They have an opinion on everything, just like you. The question becomes “Who is going to be conscious enough to give up their position to make things work?”

Consider this: You’ve already blown hundreds of opportunities to expand your dreams because of your need to be right. Right about your limitations, right about the situation, right about people….Right about how wrong people are. Right about how people should behave and not behave. Right about the process. Right about the procedure. Right about how it’s supposed to look. Right, right, right.

This week be flexible: Flexibility is your greatest asset in money making. You can either be right, or you can be in action…filled with joy…totally satisfied with who you are and where you are going! Take action on your intentions today. Give up being right about you, your limitations, the situation, the timing, and people.

Engage the mystery of life, you have no idea what is going to happen next, just take the next action and enjoy the result, positive or negative…both are just opinions. Trust that you are on the right path, if you are reading this, then by the very nature of your intention, it is true, you are on the right path…whether you are producing results or not.

Take action in-spite of the uncomfortable feelings you might have. Just make it an experiment, not important; just see if you can take the action without feeling anything.

Matthew Ferry is an Author and a coach for conscious business people and executives who are committed to feeling bliss and happiness and using that energy to create a successful life. Life Coaching and being a life coach is his main course.

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Give Up Your Righteousness

There are six billion people on this planet. Every single person has a completely different perspective. You know that every single person has had billions of experiences. Experience shapes our opinions, judgments, ideals, preferences, and ultimately our view of life.

Every one of these experiences helps us make new decisions about the world, our desires, and the meaning of life itself. Taking this into account, you now realize that there are no two beings that have had the same experiences. No two people, in other words, live in the same world as you do. In fact, there are currently six billion worlds on the planet.

Give up that you know anything! You only know things from your perspective. Your perspective has nothing to do with anyone else. Your opinion of life is not valid or relevant to anyone else. There is no need to survive your interactions with other people. A person’s opinion about how things are isn’t a threat to you. When someone behaves in a way that is different than you, it’s not a threat to you. This week notice how everyone is doing the best they can in the situation. Given their background and circumstances, they are simply doing what appears to be the best possible move.

Who have you been afraid of? Who have you not been calling? Where have you been stuck? Where have you been stopped? What isn’t moving forward? Today, right now, do something about that! Who can you call? Who can you talk to? What action can you take? What have you been putting off? What conversation have you been putting off?

Give up your righteousness. Give up your judgments. Stop making things up about people. Quit projecting your negativity into the future. Don’t let The Drunk Monkey hold people accountable to agreements they didn’t even make. Stop holding people accountable to your beliefs, to your ideas, to your reality. What you think is your reality, what other people think is their reality.

Notice how people are doing the best they can today. Notice the people you are putting off calling, having a conversation with, or talking to are just doing the best they can. They have crazy lives just like you, they want the best for themselves, and the people in their lives just like you. They want to win, be right, and have opportunities; just like you do…They are a not scary, mean person…that’s just The Drunk Monkey projecting its vindictiveness on to them. That scariness is not them; it’s the weird nastiness inside of you, which you are projecting. Give it up. Be the scientist. Make the call and see what happens. Don’t get caught up in the result. See what the result might be. Once you get a result from your action, assess where you are, and decide on the next course of action. No stress. That’s all you have ever done your entire life.

Now, while you are at it, look for the synchronicities, the unexpected, unexplainable, good fortune that is happening all around you. And when you spot it, report it. Celebrate it. Get excited about the luck and good fortune you experience, even when it doesn’t fully manifest. You might only get the signal that what you want is coming. Perfect. Get excited about that.

Say this statement all day “My intentions are being delivered to me with perfect synchronicity.”

Matthew Ferry is an Author and a coach for conscious business people and executives who are committed to feeling bliss and happiness and using that energy to create a successful life. Life Coaching and being a life coach is his main course.

Life Coach - Life is Lifting Along

Life comes at you full force. You are born an orphan. You are born into an alcoholic family. Your brother molests you. You are raised in the ghetto.

Your parents are emotionally unavailable. Your boss fires you out of the blue. A big deal falls apart. You get rejected. Your car gets stolen. So what…so what…so what!!! That’s just interesting feedback. Life is lifing along. Life is doing its thing…The Drunk Monkey’s opinion about it won’t change it.

It is only The Drunk Monkey’s option about life that is causing you to suffer and causing you to stop. There are no good results or bad results. Good or bad is just your opinion. Because you are Being Unstoppable, you are realizing that success is nothing more than a series of well managed breakdowns, failures, and mistakes! And what are breakdowns, failures, and mistakes in reality? Outcomes. Hmm…Very interesting…I didn’t think that was going to happen! I wonder what would happen if I did this next!

That’s Being Unstoppable! So go for it today!!!! Do something totally outrageous that will catapult your life forward. Approach it like a scientist…interested in what the results might be! And when the result happens, accept the situation as it is and move forward from there. Don’t let The Drunk Monkey suck you into the drama “See…You are a loser! You can’t do it! You are no good! You are stupid!” At some point consider working with our powerful coaching staff to resolve some of those underlying issues The Drunk Monkey is using to make you feel bad…

In the mean time, just accept the situation as it is and declare it perfect. Are you having any results that you feel are victories? Remember that I don’t judge your victories, I just honor them with you, and the really inspiring ones I post on my site.

Matthew Ferry is an Author and a coach for conscious business people and executives who are committed to feeling bliss and happiness and using that energy to create a successful life. Life Coaching and being a life coach is his main course.

Life Coach - Align and Redirect

By releasing your need to be in control of the uncontrollable, you move into a state of flow. You start to experience grace, luck, and miracles.

Nothing biblical though it could seem like that….Miracles is just unexpected and unexplainable good fortune! As you align yourself with your environment, with the people in your life ,and with the situations you find yourself in…things instantly get better! Consider there is not resistance out there in the world! All the resistance you are experiencing is inside of you…it’s your perception! So just give it up. Align with your life, make it right, declare it perfect, and then redirect it in the direction you want to go.

Notice how you are beginning to roll with life, even now. Having come this far in the Being Unstoppable seminar means you are developing the muscle of acceptance. You are learning to accept the situation as it is and then move from there. Just practice saying “Perfect…Now what?”

Because you are practicing accepting situations, you naturally find yourself declaring situations perfect. Your car gets stolen, you say “Perfect, I must need a new car,” Your big deal falls apart before your eyes and you say, “Perfect, I’m making space for the biggest deal of my life.”

Practice Alignment Phrases for this week:
1. This must be the perfect place to be…
2. I wonder what I’m going to learn from this?
3. I’m so excited about this breakdown!

Align yourself with life, declare everything perfect, stay calm and notice how powerfully the next steps come! Question: How do you know if something is perfect or not? Declare it perfect and it is. You are the creator of your experience. Your language, your perspective, and your actions create reality. The Drunk Monkey hates declaring things perfect, because The Drunk Monkey prefers the suffering of being the victim. Give that up, accept the situation as it is and watch the magic happen!!!


Just be unstoppable today!


Matthew Ferry is an Author and a coach for conscious business people and executives who are committed to feeling bliss and happiness and using that energy to create a successful life. Life Coaching and being a life coach is his main course.

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Life Coaching - Give Up All Of Your Ideas About How It’s Supposed to Look

Dr. David Hawkins wrote in his book The Eye of the I, “The letting go of all pretensions to knowledge or of knowing about anything, is a great relief and is experienced as a tremendous benefit” All suffering is related to your opinion. Give up this crazy notion that you know how it’s all supposed to look. The Drunk Monkey uses it’s prophecy as a way of beating you up, when it doesn’t look the way it thought.

Letting go of the need to “Know” is so relaxing, so enjoyable. It’s just being real...being honest. You don’t know what is supposed to be happening. Being on Earth is unpredictable and chaotic. There are trillions of variables influencing your outcomes. Just chill, sit back, and enjoy them the same way you would enjoy a movie. Dr. David Hawkins also says “One had been, without knowing it, in bondage to the content,(of the mind) and therefore the release from mind is accompanied by a profound sense of peace and absolute security.”

With absolute security, being unstoppable is a snap! That’s what we are creating together. Focus on what you want today; don’t bother thinking about what you don’t want. Take action on your intentions today and really be unstoppable. Giggle and laugh at how absurd The Drunk Monkey is...The Drunk Monkey thinks it is psychic and can tell the future!!!

Engage the mystery of life “life coaching”, be the scientist today, take actions and delight in the results...positive or negative....you are doing an experiment called Being Unstoppable! You aren’t accountable for the result, you are discovering what the result might be...you have no idea what is going to happen next, just take the next action, and enjoy the result, positive or negative...

Give up that you are wrong, or bad, or stupid, or ugly, or not enough...just because the result you predicted or wanted didn’t happen...you are not a psychic, you can’t tell the future, relax and enjoy the ride...you are going to die, maybe today, maybe years from now...all you have is now...take a deep breath and enjoy this moment with me!

Trust yourself today. Know that you are on the right path. Look at how far you have come in life so far, you are one of the most prosperous people in the world, don’t believe me monkey brain?!? Then move to South Africa for a while, and then talk to me about how successful you are....don’t let the drunk monkey beat you up today...be grateful and read the all is well visualization today...I’ve included a link over to the left in my message...

If something amazing has happened out of your participation below, then click the link below to report any victories, wins, or accomplishments you are proud of. Let me acknowledge you; let me be proud of you.

Matthew Ferry is an Author and a coach for conscious business people and executives who are committed to feeling bliss and happiness and using that energy to create a successful life. Life Coaching and being a life coach is his main course.